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Cloud Based Brownie Points System for the kids

It sparked from a conversation with Emma about how she and Ethan ought to receive a decent present from Santa this Christmas. I’ve had plenty of ideas in the past on how to track merits and demerits ranging from a whiteboard stuck to the fridge or bomb shelter door to a Google Assistant enabled method of populating a shared Google Sheet with awards and deductions. The Google Assistant method was close but there were limitations so I never got to complete that. Emma suggested the whiteboard method but I wasn’t keen to have an exposed whiteboard that is prone to “hacking” (modification) of scores when I’m out so I told her that I’d build something by the next day. I spent the entire night and the wife was very annoyed with me being still up at 5am while the kids rolled around restlessly without my presence in bed.

So let’s start with the requirements

  • Must be able to track points for 2 kids (Emma and Ethan)
  • Must be cloud-based so that multiple parents/guardians can have access to award/deduct points anytime, anywhere, with everything synchronised perfectly
  • Must be able to award / deduct points easily without fuss
  • Must have a real-time “dashboard” for the kids to check their scores at anytime from their iPads

After some considerations, I’ve chosen to build the web app in PHP, mySQL and javascript. Yes, yes, that’s a rather ancient stack but I’m not a fulltime developer and that was what I used to tinker with. I even had to deal with mysql_connect() being deprecated since PHP version > 5 – that shows how long it has been since I last touched this. Killed brain cells reading up on the newer PDO_MySQL extension and using jquery/ajax to make the experience more seamless.

For the admin portal (for parents to award/deduct points), I had to make sure that:

  • On document load, fetch Emma and Ethan’s current scores and populate them in the input form fields as shown in the screenshot
  • On any change to the fields, either via the -/+ buttons or editing the score directly in the input, the score in the input field will be sent to a separate PHP script along with the new score and for whom the score is meant for.
  • Check that mySQL returns an affected row count of >0 (technically it must be “1” for success modification of 1 record)
  • Every 3 seconds, Javascript will query the DB for the latest scores and update the input field element values (in case the other parent updated the score from another device). This is to reduce race condition though this implementation is really not full proof.
Howard's Cloud based brownie / star point merit system for kids
The admin portal. I’m obviously not a designer. Sorry!

For the kids’ dashboard,

  • Visually pleasing, fancy way of displaying the 2 scores
  • Javascript updates score every 2 seconds by calling the DB for the latest scores (Yes, yes, going to get judged for doing such polling but hey, it’s a private project and polling only happens if the dashboard is running).
Howard's Cloud Based Brownie / Stars merit points system for kids
Creating the background of the dashboard
Howard's Cloud Based Brownie / Stars merit points system for kids
What the kids will see

I also took pictures of the kids in order to use them for the dashboard. What a tiring day!

Sorry that I won’t be releasing the source codes as I deem myself as a sloppy, amateur coder. I, however, hope to inspire you guys out there to find creative ways to engage your kids!

Feel free to share your comments or feedback!

Choo Choo Train @ Kallang Wave Mall 2021

We took the kids (@doubleetoh) to Kallang Wave Mall for lunch and to get some groceries as we’re going to have a small steamboat lunch for Mother’s Day the next day. After lunch, we brought the kids to get their Zoomoov fix. We also gave in to their request for the Choo Choo Train ride as well. We used to pay $6 per kid but they seem to have switched their ticketing mechanics. A $6 ticket allows for 2 pax be it a child + parent or child + child. Since Emma and Ethan can already ride on their own, we spent $12 and that gave them 2 rounds of train ride together! They are also running a promotion now where each $6 ride ticket comes with a free gift! When do you receive the gift? During the ride, there will be a “pit stop” at Paco FunWorld where a man will come out with a box for the child to select his/her gift! Super cool and such a great deal!

Why it is better to order Sambucol Black Elderberry Syrup from iHerb

Sambucol, Black Elderberry, For Kids Syrup, Berry Flavor, 7.8 fl oz (230 ml)

The kids keep falling sick because Emma is now in full day childcare where she gets exposed to other children who are sick in the centre. Instead of whining about parents allowing their kids to childcare sick (which is partially understandable because our work culture doesn’t allow working adults sufficient flexibility to juggle a job and stay home to look after a sick child), we decided to purchase the Sambucol Black Elderberry Syrup from iHerb.

Since many parents swore by this product’s effectiveness in reducing sick days in children, we thought of giving it a shot. There are many local retailers or marketplaces selling Sambucol products such as Lazada but since this product has a expiry date, I decided to get it from iHerb since they move their products really fast and I’ve trusted them as our kids’ supplier of probiotics and multivitamins.

Best of all, 4 bottles of this qualifies you for 5% discount, free shipping to Singapore, 5% rebate as store credits and the price is the cheapest I’ve found so far!

Description of Sambucol Black Elderberry Syrup from iHerb

  • Dietary Supplement
  • For Kids
  • Gluten Free
  • 2 Years & Older
  • Developed by Dr Madeleine Mumcuoglu
  • Scientifically Tested
  • Support Immunity
  • High Antioxidants Levels
  • Dietary Supplement
  • Supports Immune System
  • Virologist Developed
  • Great Tasting Syrup
  • 100% Drug Free
  • BDP Kosher

Saumbucol, the original Black Elderberry extract, provides strong immune system support to help you and your family stay healthy throughout the year. Sambucol Black Elderberry extract conveniently arms you with some of the best protection natural has to offer.

Developed by a world renowned virologist, Sambucol is the unique black elderberry extract that has been used in scientific studies. By using a proprietary method of extraction, only Sambucol can guarantee consistent, immune supporting properties in every serving.

Trusted by millions worldwide, Sambucol can be taken every day for continuous immune system support.

Kosher: Supervised by the Chief Rabbinate of Beth Din De Paris.

Suggested Use

Use daily for maximum benefit

For Daily Maintenance:

  • 2-3 years: Take 1 (5 mL) teaspoon daily.
  • 4-12 years: Take 2 (10 mL) teaspoons daily.

For Intensive use:

  • 2-3 years: Take 1 (5 mL) teaspoon four times daily.
  • 4-12 years: Take 2 (10 mL) teaspoons four times daily.

Other Ingredients

  • Glucose syrup, purified water, citric acid, potassium sorbate (to retard spoilage)
  • Free from gluten, dairy, soy, wheat, nuts, artificial color and flavors.
  • Quality. Safety. Reliability. The PharmaCare name guarantees that this product is produced using the highest manufacturing standards, and PharmaCare stands behind every bottle of Sambucol that your purchase. Satisfaction Guaranteed.

Warnings

  • Not suitable for children under 2 years
  • Sealed for your protection. Do not use if seal is broken or missing.
  • To preserve quality and freshness, keep tightly sealed and keep in a cool, dry place. Keep out of the reach of children.

[Taiwan Trip]: Travel Kettle

waterWater in Taiwan is not potable so I am certainly not even going to give BOILED tap water to Emma or use it for her milk and food.

Based on experience from my last few trips to Taiwan, I’m going to buy the huge ass bottle of distilled water.

Next, we’ve to worry about boiling the water. In the past, I’ve never had to worry and would gladly get out of our apartment and grab drinks from 7-11.

We’ve got a mini kettle in the house but it is rated to work only on 220v as per our local power supply standards. Do take note that using a 220v kettle in a country with 110v supply will result in water that doesn’t boil. In some cases, the appliance will not even power up at all. However, using a 110v appliance in a 220v country will result in a blown fuse or worse, irreversible damage and a suffocating shroud of smoke.

Most kettles sold in our local supermarkets / electrical appliances stores are rated only for local use. So I did the next best thing – which is to shop on Amazon. I didn’t want to just buy a 110v kettle as this means that I will never be able to use it in countries with 220v supplies. I needed a dual voltage kettle and I found one that is small enough for me to pack it in my luggage.

After going through various options, I purchased this:

Bonavita – Dual Voltage 0.5L Travel Electric Kettle, 700W heating element

Feeding Time!

htm-55991-1We started E on tasting food when she was about 5 month old. It is however recommended to start at 6 month old but because E showed a lot of interest in our food so I started letting her taste first. I did not do much research on preparation of food hence for the 1st few tasting sessions, I bought food jars from Mothercare. I read that we should start with fruit first then vegetables.

Hence my first jar I bought was Country Apple Puree. 1 jar was considered A LOT as I only gave her a spoonful to taste each time. The food jar could not be left opened too long hence I disposed it after 2 or 3 days the most.

Update (2026): If you are looking for starter food jars now, you can compare baby food puree jars on Shopee.

Babies however do have the tongue-thrust reflex which pushes food out of their mouth. This is a reflex that ensures they do not choke. It does not reflect that they dislike the food. It is also recommended that they are able to sit up and have a strong neck control, this will ensure they the chances of choking is minimal. As I tried to feed E abit by abit, and most of it gets pushed out of her mouth, the only thing I told myself was “KEEP TRYING!” it is true! When you first introduce solids, it is very important to have patience and keep trying. It will definitely get messy so be prepared for that. Do note that until they reach 1 year old, their main meals still come from Breastmilk/Formula Milk. So do not stress if they do not feed on solids very much.

 

Good bib
Prior to starting on solids, I bought a lot of cloth bibs to help with the excessive drooling due to teething. These are great for soaking up the drool and they look good! But when it come to solid feeding, these do not work well. The puree gets smeared on the bib and E’s hands will be messed up
be-neat-sea-amo with all the puree which she spit out. I was very much into Ju-Ju-Be and hence I decided to try the Be Neat. It is a waterproof, washable bib with magnetic snap closure. It also reversible and has a little pocket to catch food droppings. I also love that it can hang on my fridge so I can grab and go when I need to feed her. It is not cheap but it has saved me a lot of times when E vomits merlion style and the vomit is caught in the pocket. Phew. Saves me from cleaning the floor and highchair. So far I own 4 Be Neats and Im loving it!

Ju-Ju-Be is available on local retailers :
Pupsik Studio, Maternity Exchange, Tiny Tree

Update (2026): Ju-Ju-Be Be Neat seems to be out of production now. If you are looking for a practical feeding bib today, you can consider waterproof baby feeding bibs with a food-catching pocket instead.

Spoon
Tommee Tippee Explora Feeding Spoon 7m+ Orang PinkIt is also important to select a suitable spoon for your little one. When we first started, I used a very shallow spoon I bought from Mothercare. It allows me to feed her bit by bit and she won’t choke. However as she grew older, and able to take bigger spoonfuls, this spoon has now retired! So please do select the right size spoon for your little one! We are currently using Tommee Tippee baby feeding spoons which are easy to grip!

 

 

Bowl
I read about Calibowl and I wanted to try. I was impressed with the fact that it has a anti slip base and patent pending lip around the top of the bowl which is designed at an angle which pushes food onto your utensil avoiding any spillage and overflows. This helps me to scoop up food with 1 hand and less mess. I also intend to use this bowl when E learns to self-feed. I also bought the suction base version so she won’t be able to throw the bowl off the high chair when the time comes for her to self-feed! HaHa. Other than the Calibowl, I also used a Grinder bowl when I started E on porridge. This helped to cool down the porridge while the grinder portion helped to further mash the porridge so she can swallow better . Since then I have also bought Combi bowl with handle for her tea-time yogurt treat as it is easy to hold. Recently I also bought the Skip Hop bowl which is very colourful and attractive, she has been into Owls lately and so I bought the Owl design. This helps in making her finish her food because she can see the Owl face only after she finish all her food!

Update (2026): Fast forward to 2026, the kids are still using the Calibowl-style non-slip bowl for sides.

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Skip Hop Owl Bowl
Grinder Bowl
Grinder Bowl

Meals
After researching abit more about meals, I stopped food jars, I read that some are made out of mostly water. I wanted E to have nutritious home cooked food and so I started reading up more about the type of food she should eat at each stage of her life.

 

It is important to note what are the type of food you can feed at each stage as some food items may cause allergy such as eggs, so be sure to do the 3-day test and do be cautious especially if parents do have allergy to certain food. I also read about making our own soup stock so I started boiling and freezing soup stock for use when I cook her porridge. It is indeed very tasty! I typically use a double boiler to cook her porridge as I don’t want to boil it direct as the nutrients will be lost. This will however take longer time but it ensures the nutrients are locked in so well, anything for my babygirl. Even if it means staying up till 10 or 11pm to cook and prepare! I usually cook about 2 day’s worth of meals and then I will freeze it. When it is time to eat, my helper will heat up the quantity needed over the stove. This also relieves her of the stress to cook as she is usually alone with my baby at home. Ohhh woes of a full time working mom, I really wish I could cook her fresh meals everyday!

Tupperware Turbo Chopper

Tools

I have a standard set of tools I use when cooking to help in preparation of ingredients. One for sure I definitely must have is the Tupperware Turbo Chopper. This helps me to chop up the ingredients such as carrots into smaller pieces so it cooks faster when I double boil. It also ensures the taste goes right into the porridge and it is so flavourful! It is so effortless to use it too!

Buy Tupperware Turbo Chopper on Shopee

 

 

Snacks


When E started to be able to sit on high chair when we dined out, I always bring out a placemat (Silicone Cloudy Placemat SGD26.90) and some snacks for her. I started with teething rusks which are usually hard biscuits to soothe tender gums. It also usually come in a stick form so it is easy for imagesbabies to grasp and chew. But I realised this caused rashes around E’s mouth so I stopped. I started feeding her Baby Bites which she loves! Slowly I also introduced fruits such as blueberry and grapes. These 2 fruits can cause choking so it is recommended to cut into smaller pieces for them until they can handle it on their own. I also fed yogurt and I started with baby yogurt such as Petit Miam which I bought from NTUC finest.

Buy silicone cloud baby placemat on Shopee

 

Water
When is a good time to start feeding water? We started when she started on solids, but in limited quantity. I tried sippy cups which are quite similar to drinking from milk bottles but she didn’t quite like it, then 1 fine day, we thought of just trying straw cup. We mimicked the action of sucking the water from the straw, and then suddenly she did it! But she took up a big gulp of water so of course she choked abit. But after that with abit of practise she is able to handle the straw herself. Hurray! Only after being a mother that you realised a straw cup is not just a straw cup. There are so many different straw cups! After some research, I am now using anti-leak and weighted straw with removable handles. These are important for me because I wanted her to be able to handle the cup by herself which means even if she held it upside down, the water should not leak out and because she may tilt it at an angle, with a weighted straw, she will still be able to suck up the water. Removable handles are great for when I need to bring her cup out, it will not add to the bulk. I am now using Lollacup which is a super cute design and with the mini brush which comes with it, it is easy to wash! I also bought Innobaby Straw Cup which is very good but the handles are built in so I mostly use this at home.

Psst, Lollacup is available at Mothercare and Innobaby is available at Motherswork!

Innobaby Straw Cup
Lollacup

 

Highchair

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It is important to select a suitable high chair. Some of the criteria we looked at was that it has to be space saving, solid material so that there wouldn’t be a chance where she will be in the high chair and for some reason it collapses. It is a plus point if it can be used for a long time. After deliberation, we selected the Stokke Tripp Trapp in a nice shade of walnut which matches our home theme. The seat and foot plate is also adjustable as and when they grow. This chair is also meant for the little one to join us at the big dining table! However, most of the accessories are optional and hence sold separately. We purchased the baby set and tray for now, but as she grows, we can remove them so it is like a regular chair for her. There is also an option to purchase the harness to keep the baby in! We haven’t bought this for now but we should soon. I love this chair, it is very stable and the legs does not take up much space compared to the Ikea one. It is solid wood and I love the fact there is a foot plate so baby gets to rest their feet. For some reason I do not like the high chairs where baby feets are dangling. When adult eat their meals, our feet are also nicely grounded on the floor right?

E is now 9 months old and we are feeding 2 solid meals of porridge a day. I will be writing on my recipes so far, I have also started making ikan bilis powder! That will be in my next few posts!

Tata for now!

 

 

Baby feeding items mentioned in this post

Fast forward to 2026, these are practical Shopee Singapore options related to the feeding items mentioned above:

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