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Rove Beetles in Vietnam: The Tiny Bug We Didn’t Take Seriously Until My Daughter’s Eye Started Swelling

A tourist PSA from our Ho Chi Minh City trip

During our recent trip to Ho Chi Minh City, we stayed in a well-furnished apartment on the 17th floor. It was a nice place, the host was responsive, and honestly, this was not the sort of problem I expected to encounter so high above ground level.

But over the first couple of days, we started noticing tiny insects crawling around inside the apartment.

At first, I did what many people would probably do without thinking too much: I squashed a few of them.

Bad idea.

We later realised these were rove beetles, known locally in Vietnam as kiến ba khoang. They are small, easy to miss, and they do not bite or sting. That is probably why many tourists may not immediately see them as dangerous.

The problem is what happens when they are crushed.

Rove beetles can contain an irritant called pederin. If the beetle is crushed against the skin, or if its body fluid gets transferred onto skin, towels, bedsheets, clothing, or surfaces, it can cause a painful skin reaction called Paederus dermatitis. The rash can look like a burn, blister, infection, or even shingles.

That was the part we did not know. Here’s a short clip of one of the many in our apartment. YouTube Shorts: https://youtube.com/shorts/lERdwH2axbQ

What Happened to Emma

From around the second day of our stay, we noticed some swelling and redness around Emma’s eye area.

At first, we did not immediately connect it to the insects in the apartment. After all, these beetles are not known to sting. There was no obvious “bite moment”, no screaming, no dramatic jungle-adventure scene. Just some redness and swelling that slowly became worrying.

Emma's eye swelling from rove beetle dermatitis during HCMC tripRedness and swelling near the eye caused by Paederus dermatitis from rove beetle

As the trip went on, the area looked more inflamed, and because it was near her eye, we decided not to wait it out. Skin reactions are one thing. Anything near the eye is where my parental overthinking department opens a full emergency branch office.

So I brought Emma to Tâm Anh General Hospital in District 7 of Ho Chi Minh City.

Registration @ Tam Anh Hospital in District 7

Visiting Tâm Anh Hospital as a Tourist in HCMC

Pediatric Consultation at Tam Anh HospitalWe went to Tâm Anh General Hospital for Emma’s consultation.

My quick summary of the experience: it felt like a private hospital visit, closer to something like Gleneagles in Singapore in terms of environment, but the bill was surprisingly affordable from a Singaporean tourist’s point of view.

The hospital was clean, quiet, and very well-staffed. In fact, there seemed to be more nurses and staff than patients when we were there.

The one area that could have been better was English communication. For a hospital that seems fairly modern and private, I expected basic English communication to be smoother. We managed, but it was not seamless until we saw the doctor.

That said, once the doctor came in, the consultation itself was relaxed and reassuring. Emma noticed that the doctor walked in wearing Crocs, which immediately made the whole thing feel a bit less intimidating. Not exactly the solemn hospital drama scene I had prepared myself for.

The doctor was an experienced older paediatrician, and almost immediately after looking at Emma’s skin, she asked whether it could be an insect-related reaction.

At that point, I was still unsure.

Then we both started trying to describe the same insect in our own ways. I showed her photos of rove beetles, and we had the “ah, yes, that one” moment.

The doctor suspected that Emma may have come into contact with a rove beetle while sleeping, or unknowingly during the day. Another possibility is that the irritant may have been transferred from a crushed beetle on a surface, towel, bedsheet, or object.

And yes, I had crushed one or two of them earlier in the stay before I knew what they were.

So this post is partly a PSA, and partly my confession that I may have accidentally turned a tiny bug into a tiny biological paint marker. Not my proudest fatherhood side quest.

Should I Blame the Airbnb Host?

Personally, I do not think this is a case for naming and shaming the Airbnb host.

We booked two apartments opposite each other because we were travelling as a large group. Both units were well furnished, and the host was responsive throughout our stay.

From what I later read, rove beetles can become more common during wet or rainy seasons in parts of Vietnam. They are attracted to light and may enter homes and apartments even when people are generally careful. In our case, the apartment was on the 17th floor and the windows were shut, yet we still saw multiple beetles indoors.

When I informed the host, he offered to reimburse our medical bill. I told him we had travel insurance, but I appreciated the gesture. He also quickly sent someone to apply pest repellent around the windows and balcony areas.

To me, that showed responsibility.

So this is not a “bad Airbnb” post. It is more of a “tourists should know this tiny insect exists” post.

Because if you see one of these beetles and react the wrong way, you may make things worse without realising it.

What Rove Beetles Look Like

The rove beetles we saw were small and narrow-bodied, with a distinctive colour pattern: dark head, orange/red body sections, and a darker tail end. They look a bit like an ant, a wasp, and a tiny villain from an insect anime all merged together.

Rove Beetle in Vietnam (kiến ba khoang)

The key thing to know: do not crush them.

Not with your hand.
Not with tissue.
Not with a slipper.
Not with a random object that you might later touch again.

If the beetle’s body fluid gets onto a surface, and someone touches that surface later, the irritant may still transfer to the skin.

What To Do If You See a Rove Beetle

If you are visiting Vietnam, especially during wetter seasons, and you see a bug that looks like the one in the photos or video here:

  1. Do not crush it.
  2. Do not brush it across your skin.
  3. Gently blow it away or use a piece of paper to lift and remove it.
  4. If you think it touched your skin, wash the area with soap and water.
  5. Wash hands, towels, or clothing that may have come into contact with it.
  6. Avoid touching your eyes after handling anything near the insect.
  7. Seek medical help if there is swelling, blistering, pain, spreading redness, or eye involvement.

This is especially important for children because they may touch the insect, wipe their face, rub their eyes, or sleep on contaminated bedsheets without anyone noticing.

Symptoms to Watch For

Rove beetle dermatitis may not appear instantly. Depending on the exposure, symptoms can develop later and may include:

  • Redness
  • Burning sensation
  • Swelling
  • Blister-like marks
  • Linear rash patterns
  • Skin that looks like a burn
  • Irritation near the eyes
  • Worsening redness or signs of infection

Because the rash can look like other conditions, it is easy to misread it as a bite, allergy, infection, or even shingles. If it is near the eye, I would not take chances.

Getting Medical Help in Ho Chi Minh City

We brought Emma to Tâm Anh General Hospital in District 7 of Ho Chi Minh City
Get directions to Tâm Anh Hospital on Google Maps

If you are a tourist in HCMC and need medical help, I would also suggest:

  • Bring your passport or a photo of it.
  • Preserve and prepare earlier photos of the swelling and/or rashes to show the doctor.
  • Take photos of the insect if you safely can.
  • Use Google Translate if the registration counter has limited English.
  • Ask for a medical report and itemised receipt for insurance claims.
  • For children, eye involvement, fever, spreading redness, or severe pain, do not wait too long.

Travel Insurance Note

This is not insurance advice, but if you are travelling, keep all receipts and medical documents.

In our case, the Airbnb host offered to reimburse the medical bill, but we had travel insurance, so I preferred to go through the proper insurance route. This is to allow us to have smoother in case there are follow-up claims or further treatment needed for medical treatment when we are back in Singapore (yes, we’re still in Ho Chi Minh as I write this).

If you need to make a claim, remember to keep:

  • Hospital receipt
  • Doctor’s memo or medical report
  • Medication receipt
  • Transport receipt, if applicable
  • Photos of the condition
  • Photos or video of the suspected insect, if available

Final PSA for Tourists Visiting Vietnam

If you remember only one thing from this post, remember this:

If you see a rove beetle, do not squash it.

The beetle is not dangerous because it chases you, bites you, or stings you. It becomes a problem when it is crushed and its irritant gets onto your skin or nearby surfaces.

We were lucky that Emma was seen quickly and the situation was manageable. But it could easily have been more stressful, especially because the reaction was near her eye.

So if you are travelling to Vietnam, especially during rainy or wet seasons, keep an eye out for these tiny beetles. Shake out towels, check bedsheets, avoid leaving bright lights on near open gaps, and teach children not to touch or squash unfamiliar insects.

Tiny bug. Serious rash. Very avoidable lesson.

Unfortunately, we learned it the itchy way.

Insinc – win cash by taking train trips off peak!

So I have been enrolled in Insinc for over a year now.

Insinc, in their own words is about”Incentives for Singapore’s Commuters”.

Simply sign up here and register your EZ-Link card that you use every day.

 

You earn points by taking train trips using the CEPAS card registered in Insinc. You will automatically earn 1 point for every 1 kilometre travelled on the train all day Monday through Friday, weekends don’t count. Designated decongesting hours earn extra points – see table below! You can earn 3, 4, 5 or 6 points per kilometre in decongesting hours if you are Bronze, Silver, Gold or Platinum!

Monday – Friday
Bronze
Silver
Gold
Platinum
Before 6:30am
off-peak
1x 1x 1x 1x
6:30 – 7:30am
decongesting
3x 4x 5x 6x
7:30 – 8:30am
peak
1x 1x 1x 1x
8:30 – 9:30am
decongesting
3x 4x 5x 6x
After 9:30am
off-peak
1x 1x 1x 1x

How much have I earned so far?

Over $200 in total. But this is just a small amount out of the over 3 million SGD they have paid out so far.

Why hesitate? Join now!

Review: Park Regis City Centre, Sydney

My rating:

I’ve had to attend a workshop in Sydney and needed something within budget and yet within walking distance from Hilton. This was one of the hotels shortlisted by our travel agency and I settled for this primarily for the distance I have to walk at 8am in the morning.

It was a huge mistake. While I had done my homework and saw that the hotel lobby is nothing but just some shop space between Subway and a coffee joint, I didn’t expect the lift lobby to be so narrow that there is only space for 3-4 pax to wait for the lift at any one time.

There is no bell service or even a trolley. You’ll have to carry all your luggages up by yourself.

Room is very small and not suitable for claustrophobic people. The toilet floor was extremely cold and my room window opens up to roofs of nearby buildings so all you can see are the water heaters and ventilation shafts.

Each room toilet has an individual water heater that makes a loud banging sound when you switch on the hot water. There is instruction pasted near the shower stating that due to weak water pressure, guests have to turn on the hot water to the maximum for 45 seconds before easing in the cold water until the desired temperature is reached.

The air-conditioning in the room is nothing but a centralised heater that runs noisily like you have an old air compressor in the room. Even though it was winter, the room felt extremely warm with the air-conditioning on. Switch it off and you’ll have no ventilation. I made a call to reception and the staff politely said that I would have to open the windows if I need ventilation and cool air. And If I need more ventilation, I can proceed down to get a table fan from them. In the end, I went down to get the table fan.

Maybe I’m spoilt but I wouldn’t want to spend my birthday in Sydney in this run-down place. I called the Duty Manager, Anthony, to cancel the last 2 nights out of my 4-night stay. Anthony politely rejected my request but I put forth my reasoning and he agreed to come back to me after consulting higher management. In the end, Park Regis agreed to cancel the 2 nights but will only refund me 1 night’s charges.

To be absolutely fair, the hotel is clean and safe. The frontdesk is manned by very service-oriented people. If you don’t mind a no frills hotel, then stay here.

If you’ve been spoilt by 4/5-star hotels, stay somewhere else. I didn’t even feel like taking a photo of my room during my 2-night stay.

I am currently in Westin, Sydney as I am typing this review.

park-regis-hotel-entrance

Grand Lexis, Port Dickson

It started when my fiancée told me that she had always wanted to stay at Grand Lexis in Port Dickson. I started planning 2 months prior to the trip as a surprise treat for her birthday. In order to add personal touch, I did not sign up through a travel agency.

I linked up with the reservation, Normala, via email and told her my requirements which included a special bouquet of pink roses and a birthday cake that were to be delivered at 12 midnight on my fiancée’s birthday. After some deliberation, I decided to opt for the Grand Pool Villa with full sea view which comes with the following:

• Size of units – upper 1312 & lower 1291 square feet
• Number of units – upper 23 & lower 23
• 2 king size beds
• Can accommodate 04 persons
• Glass panel for underneath sea viewing
• Private swimming pool with garden
• Dry Kitchenette
• Separate bath and toilet
• Rain shower
• Wall mounted hairdryer
• Mini fridge
• In-room safe box
• Astro – 19 channels
• 42’ LCD flat screen TV
• Coffee and tea making facilities
• Electric kettle
• IDD telephone
• Ceiling mounted air-conditioner
• Ceiling fan
• Stationary exercise bicycle
• DVD player
• Microwave oven
• Iron and ironing board (upon request)
• Bathroom weighing scale
• Umbrella

* Surcharge of RM150.00nett per room per night will be applicable for Full Sea View Room (Room subject to availability)

Normala sent me a form via email to fill up and also asked me to send her a copy of the front and back of my credit card to secure the reservation. Not hard at all.

Next was transport. I called up almost every coach company in Singapore and found a bizarre fact that while there are coaches to Port Dickson, there was none back to Singapore. I never quite understood why even till this day. In the end, I decided that we will fly to KL and get a cab to Grand Lexis.

On the day of our arrival, we arrived pretty early at the hotel as we took an early flight from Singapore. It was barely 11am when we registered at the front desk. We were very tired as we had gotten up at 5am that morning to catch our flight so I requested for the staff to get us the room quickly. Unfortunately, they appeared to be fully booked the night before and we had to wait for the guests to check out. I left my mobile number and deposited my luggage at the bell counter (Which is just a corner of the lobby) before taking a nice exploratory walk around the hotel with my fiancée. It was very windy and hot out there as it was almost noon. We returned to the lobby after 30 minutes to cool down from the heat.

Hotel Lobby
Hotel Lobby
Our room ... two king size beds
Our room … two king size beds
Bathroom and private pool view
Bathroom and private pool view
Another view
Another view

The lobby was pretty crowded as the Great Eastern Life group were having their corporate event. It irked us that their staff were pretty noisy and taking up most of the seats in the lobby. They appeared to be having a treasure hunt game – it was unbearable for us as the noise level was unacceptable. In the end, I suggested to retreat to the hotel’s Duyung restaurant for a light meal. Shortly after placing our order, I got a phone call informing me that our room is ready! As we couldn’t wait to get to our room, we requested for our order to be sent to our room instead.
We finally met Normala in person at the lobby and she arranged for a buggy to send us and our luggage to our room. As I had booked a full sea view room, the allocated room is understandably one of the furthest from the front desk. Before boarding the buggy, the General Manager of Grand Lexis, Mr Chan, came out to greet us personally. I could see from his profuse perspiration that he had been walking the ground and helping with ground work together with his staff due to the high occupancy!

When we arrived at our room, we couldn’t contain our excitement and started running around taking photographs of our large and spacious room. We even neglected the food that we had ordered earlier amidst our excitement! The team at Grand Lexis had painstakingly laid out rose petals of red and pink on BOTH our king size beds, TV console and coffee table! Check out the photographs!

After taking photographs, we laid down beside the glass panelled floor which showed the sea. Even though we were not able to see any marine life, the presence of a window on the floor to the sea was a very unique experience for both of us.

We took a free shuttle to Port Dickson’s waterfront at 3pm so as to get some supplies from the supermarket. In the end, we also bought bread and pizza (Dominos) before catching the return shuttle. Nothing to shout about at the waterfront and we were so glad to be back in our room by 6pm. Port Dickson would have offered very wonderful sunset views if not for the haze that was plaguing Singapore and the coastal areas along the Malacca straits.

At 12:05am, 2-3 hotel staff arrived in a buggy (I could hear from inside my room) so I quickly rushed out to grab the bouquet of roses and the cake from them before my fiancée noticed. My surprise was successful thanks to the Grand Lexis team!

The mini kitchenette was great as it came with a microwave oven, cutlery, plates and bowls for two, an electric kettle and the standard tea bags and coffee sachets. Due to this, we never had to eat cold food. Thumbs up for this as well!

Wi-Fi coverage was very good as there were two Access Points per room. There was one for the room and one for the pool area behind the kitchenette. Unfortunately, all the APs in the hotel grounds appear to connect back to the very same internet connection. This means that all guests in the hotel were competing for bandwidth and the internet connectivity was of little use to us throughout our stay. On the brighter side, we were supposed to be enjoying this vacation detached from our electronic gadgets so it wasn’t that bad after all.

Would we come back again? Absolutely! We would love to also try their new project, the Hibiscus, which is about an hour’s journey from here and it should be ready by next year.

Before I end this, I must add that the sleep quality was so good that we spent hours and hours sleeping on the comfortable king size bed. Absolutely wonderful!

Review: Hatten Hotel

My rating:

Jamie and I spent a night at Hatten Hotel in Malacca as part of a weekend getaway with her and her family.

Hatten Hotel is new and is in fact currently celebrating its first anniversary. The lobby is spacious but it can get really crowded during check-in hours.

We were lucky that we’ve already done the registration prior to check-in hours and only had to collect our key cards to our respective rooms.

Since Hatten Hotel is new, the rooms are very clean, at least for ours. Our room didn’t come with nice view and we could only see the city. It didn’t help that a crane was parked right outside our window due to some construction works outside the hotel. Due to this, we kept the curtains drawn all the time.

The bathroom was well lit and clean. One side of the wall is made up of a big piece of mirror. What we didn’t like was the fact that the toilet bowl being too close to the door. If we didn’t lock the door, anyone crashing through the bathroom door will certainly knock the current toilet bowl user off the seat – or minimally inflict painful knee injuries.

On the plus side, having two televisions in the room meant that couples won’t need to fight over which channel to watch before going to bed. Then again, I’ve almost never found time to sit in front of the television when I travel.

While we can rave about the room, the hotel buffet dinner was nothing to shout about. At rm$80++ per pax, it is not cheap by Malaysian standards. We were extremely disappointed by the variety of food. I happily walked to the chilli crab section only to find the tray full of crab shells. Any remnants of flesh that could be found were hard and powdery – definitely not fresh. The breakfast was slightly better but we have seen better spreads elsewhere.

Would we stay again? Most certainly! Enjoy the room, forget about taking any meals in the hotel. In fact, we have already made plans to return this coming September.

Hatten Hotel Lobby
Hatten Hotel’s Lobby. Spacious, yet prone to overcrowding due to the number of rooms they have.
Upon entering the room, we can see the bed. Thankfully, there is a blind which we can let down for privacy.
Upon entering the room, we can see the bed. Thankfully, there is a blind which we can let down for privacy.
One of the 2 flatscreen televisions in our room. Pardon Jamie's extremely pink bag ;)
One of the 2 flatscreen televisions in our room. Pardon Jamie’s extremely pink bag 😉
Nice little bathroom
Nice little bathroom
Another bathroom view. We can't understand why the toilet bowl is so close to the door
Another bathroom view. We can’t understand why the toilet bowl is so close to the door
The Hatten-branded toiletries
The Hatten-branded toiletries
Our king size bed!
Our king size bed!
A couch facing a second flatscreen TV in the room
A couch facing a second flatscreen TV in the room
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