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Products We Never Regretted Buying in Our Parenting Journey (Part 1)

It has been slightly more than 10 years since we became parents. In that time, we have bought baby products that were brilliant, baby products that were mildly useful, and baby products that made us wonder whether sleep deprivation had affected our judgement.

With a new baby arriving in the wider family, we have been sharing the things that actually helped us survive the early years. That conversation became this post: products we never regretted buying, and in some cases, products that quietly became lifesavers.

This is Part 1 because there are more than three. But these are the ones that came immediately to mind because we used them hard, recommended them often, or are somehow still using them in 2026.

Disclosure: some links below are affiliate links. If you buy through them, I may receive a small commission at no extra cost to you.

1. Electric nasal aspirator

Let us be realistic: children will get stuffy noses, and babies cannot blow their own noses. When they are blocked, feeding becomes miserable, sleep gets worse, and everyone in the house starts operating at 3% battery.

Before we got an electric nasal aspirator, we used manual ones. The hand-pump type was the least useful for us because the suction was weak and awkward. The oral-nasal type, where you use a tube to control the suction yourself, worked much better because you can adjust the suction as gently or firmly as needed.

And no, do not panic. A proper oral-nasal aspirator has a chamber or filter so your baby’s mucus is not going into your mouth. The idea still sounds ridiculous until you are staring at a congested baby at 2am and suddenly become a very practical person.

The exact electric model we used is no longer sold by the same seller, but this is the kind of electric nasal aspirator equivalent I would look at today. I would also still keep an oral-nasal manual aspirator around because it gives you direct control over suction.

We used nasal aspirators far longer than I expected. Not just during the baby phase, but up till the kids were about 6 years old, whenever a blocked nose was bad enough that they needed help clearing it.

I wrote an older comparison of the NoseFrida Snotsucker and Lucky Baby Easi Clear nasal aspirators. I have updated the old dead buying links there, but the actual experience still holds: the manual oral-nasal style works, and having one ready at home is not overkill.

2. Stokke Tripp Trapp chair

The Stokke Tripp Trapp chair is one of those purchases that looked expensive at the start but became easier to justify every year we kept using it.

We bought ours in July 2015. It is now 2026, and we are still using it.

The main reason is adjustability. The seat and footrest can be moved as the child grows, so it does not behave like a typical baby product that is useful for a short window and then becomes a bulky thing you need to sell, store, or pretend you will pass to someone someday.

The other reason is build quality. The wood feels solid, the chair is stable, and it has survived years of meals, climbing, wiping, shifting, and everyday family chaos. It is not a magical chair, but it is a well-made one. For something used daily, that matters.

If I were buying a high chair again, I would still prioritise these things over gimmicks:

  • Can the child sit properly at the table?
  • Can the chair adapt as the child grows?
  • Is it stable enough that you are not quietly anxious every time the child moves?
  • Is it easy enough to clean after real meals, not showroom meals?

On those points, the Tripp Trapp has been one of our best long-term parenting buys.

3. A good changing table

The changing table we bought is no longer sold, and honestly, I do not think parents need to be fixated on one exact brand. What matters is having a proper changing station at the right height, with enough storage, and ideally enough distractions to keep the baby from treating diaper changes like a competitive sport.

This baby changing table with storage is the type of setup I would consider today.

Yes, you can change diapers on the sofa, bed, or floor. You will probably do that sometimes anyway. But if you are changing a baby multiple times a day, your back will eventually have opinions. A proper changing table helps because:

  • the working height is kinder on your back;
  • you can keep diaper cream, hand sanitizer, wipes and spare clothes within reach;
  • there is room underneath for the bulk-purchased diapers you swore were on offer;
  • sensory toys or hanging distractions can buy you a few precious seconds while you clean up watery poop before the next round of pee arrives.

A changing table is not glamorous. Nobody dreams about buying one. But when you are doing repeated diaper changes on very little sleep, boring and ergonomic is exactly what you want.

Part 1, for now

There are more products we would recommend, but these three are a good start because they solved real problems: blocked noses, daily meals, and diaper changes without destroying your back.

Parenting products are easy to overbuy. The better question is not “is this cute?” or “does this look clever?” but “will this still make my day easier after the novelty wears off?” These three did.

So What Happened to Tupperware Singapore and My Tupperware Warranty?

Disclaimer

Before I begin, I want to state clearly that everything I write here is based on my own perspective, investigation, and the facts I have been able to obtain. The only official communication I personally received from Tupperware regarding the changes in Singapore was an email dated 13 December 2024 from the Commercial Director for Singapore and Malaysia. I will reference parts of that email but not share it in its entirety. This post is meant to document my journey and provide some answers to customers, partners, and anyone following Tupperware’s recent story.

My Background

I have proudly represented Tupperware as a distributor in Singapore for over a decade. Over those years, I managed a successful e-commerce business focused solely on Tupperware products. I’ve always felt part of a community that values quality, innovation, and a shared entrepreneurial spirit.

The Sudden News

On 13 December 2024, while on holiday with my family, I received an email with the subject “Closure of Tupperware Singapore.” It felt like a punch to the gut—especially as there hadn’t been any hint of such drastic action. The email announced that Tupperware would “discontinue activities and phase out our business operations in your area” with immediate effect. All sales, order entry, and distribution were to be stopped at once, and we were required to cease using all Tupperware intellectual property—including the logo and catalogue images—immediately.

Not only was this abrupt, but it also left the sales force in the lurch, with no practical support for handling ending operations.

Struggling for Answers

The email named a Division Sales Manager, “N”, as our go-to for “any queries, next steps, and available support.” However, my own attempts to reach out were met with silence. Understandably, “N” may have been overwhelmed by the sheer volume of questions and the magnitude of the news. I, like many, was left with more questions than answers.

Sales Force Left with Stock and No Support

What struck me hardest was the lack of empathy for the sales force like myself. The directive to immediately cease using all Tupperware branding was clear, but there was little consideration of the stock—purchased with our own savings—that many of us now had on hand. There was no word about buy-backs, compensation, or even advice on how to sell through this inventory, especially when we could no longer publicly use the Tupperware name or images.

The Warranty Black Hole

Unsurprisingly, after the shutdown, countless customers contacted me for clarity about their Tupperware warranties—long seen as a cornerstone of the brand’s reputation. I’m sorry to say that I have not received any official word from Tupperware about honouring or continuing Singaporean customers’ warranty claims after the market’s closure. I can only confirm that the Singapore-based Service Centre closed shortly after the email announcement.

The Business Impact—And How I’m Coping

As a business owner, I have been badly affected. Not only am I left with an inventory of stock I may not be able to move, but there has also been no opportunity to continue making my side income. The wider Tupperware community in Singapore feels abandoned and anxious about the future.

Why Did This Happen? The Global Picture

Tupperware has faced mounting financial difficulties for years. Once a household name synonymous with home parties and durable kitchenware, the company has struggled with debt, changing consumer habits, and the shift towards digital shopping. In 2023, global headlines reported Tupperware facing the risk of bankruptcy as it scrambled to renegotiate its loans and secure new sources of funding. In 2024, its main creditor group effectively took over, forcing the company into a wide-ranging restructuring.

Part of that restructuring involved closing down many international markets—including Singapore, where operations officially ended in December 2024. Other regions in Asia, as well as parts of Europe and Africa, have also seen Tupperware withdraw completely or scale down operations.

Where Is Tupperware Still Active?

After these mass closures, Tupperware’s main operations seem focused on a handful of core markets:

  • United States
  • Canada
  • Mexico
  • Brazil
  • China
  • Korea
  • India
  • Malaysia

In Closing

I wish there were more closure—for myself and for my customers—after so many years of loyal partnership. To everyone who reached out with support, questions, or simply to share the sense of shock, thank you. If new information or official guidance comes in, I will update this post and my website.

 

Why I Built a Hanzi-to-Pinyin Converter

As someone who grew up speaking Mandarin, I’ve always felt at home with the language—but even I find myself pausing over a tricky character once in a while. Whether it’s a word I haven’t seen since childhood, an unfamiliar lyric in a Chinese song, or a classic text that’s just outside my everyday vocabulary, it’s surprisingly easy to get stuck and wish for an instant pinyin “cheat sheet.” I realized I wasn’t alone—many friends and family members, whether they’re fluent speakers, second-generation learners, or just curious about Chinese, have run into the same challenge.

With that in mind, I decided to build a Hanzi-to-Pinyin converter that makes this process fast, accurate, and visually clear. My aim was to help people at every stage: native speakers needing an occasional prompt; parents and teachers supporting children; heritage speakers reconnecting with their roots; and of course anyone studying Mandarin from scratch. The ability to quickly see the pinyin for any Chinese text—be it a message, a poem, or the lines of a catchy tune—removes a little friction and opens up all kinds of learning moments.

One of the most interesting technical challenges came from polyphonic characters: those Hanzi with more than one possible pronunciation depending on their context. Right now, the tool uses the most common reading for each character, which covers most everyday situations. This makes things simple and effective the majority of the time. However, truly nailing the right pronunciation every time—especially for those characters that shift depending on surrounding words or grammatical function—would require a much deeper level of language understanding. That’s something I’d love to tackle in the future, probably by leveraging advances in natural language processing to bring in real contextual awareness.

For now, I’ve focused on reliability, straightforward presentation, and catering to a wide range of users. The converter is easy to use, with results lined up clearly so you can scan both the Hanzi and Pinyin at a glance. It’s already been a big help in my own reading and teaching, and I hope it proves just as useful for anyone who loves Chinese or wants to strengthen their skills.

Who Benefits?

  • Parents teaching children:
    See every pronunciation for each Hanzi, verify tone and reading, and use the grid layout for interactive reading time.
  • Language learners:
    Never get stumped by a multi-pronunciation character again. The tool’s interface makes advanced reading and self-study a breeze.
  • Mandarin music fans:
    Match every lyric—line-by-line, word-by-word—no more missed rhymes or confusion during your sing-along.

Try It Now!

Experience the future of Hanzi-to-Pinyin conversion at nric.biz/chinese-to-pinyin-converter.php. Feel free to share your feedback and help shape the next generation of Mandarin learning!


Originally posted on fated.net.
Tool available at: https://nric.biz/chinese-to-pinyin-converter.php

When Old Melodies Meet: Mixing 張洪量’s Classics

Discovering a Familiar Sound

Recently, as I was listening to 張洪量’s “心爱妹妹的眼睛,” something about the melody struck me as oddly familiar. I couldn’t shake the feeling that I’d heard those chords before, and after a few repeats, it finally clicked—the chord progression was the same as another 张洪量 classic, “你知道我在等你吗.”

Both songs have that signature C–Am–F–G chord progression running through most of their verses and choruses. It’s a classic progression, but I was surprised at how closely the two songs mirrored each other, not just in mood but also in musical structure.

A Mashup Idea Is Born

Once I noticed this, I was curious: what if these two songs weren’t just similar, but actually mixed together? Could I blend their vocals or melodies and make them feel like a single new song?

So I decided to give it a go. I fired up GarageBand, brought in both tracks, and started tinkering. There was one big difference between the two: “心爱妹妹的眼睛” is noticeably slower than “你知道我在等你吗.” To get them to fit together, I had to adjust the tempo of “心爱妹妹的眼睛” so it would match up rhythmically. With a bit of slicing, synchronizing, and some patience, the mix began to take shape.

The Mixing Process

I used the instrumental/backing track from “你知道我在等你吗” as the foundation, then overlaid elements from “心爱妹妹的眼睛.” Surprisingly, everything fit together beautifully once the tempos were synced. The magic of a shared chord progression brought the melodies together smoothly, and I was able to create a blend that retained the spirit of both originals.

What I love most about this experiment is how it highlights the underlying connections in music—sometimes, songs we think are completely different are actually built on the same musical foundations. All it takes is a bit of curiosity (and maybe a DAW like GarageBand) to uncover those links.

Listen and Let Me Know Your Thoughts!

I put the finished mashup on YouTube for fun. If you’re a 張洪量 fan, or just enjoy clever musical experiments, give it a listen! I’d love to hear what you think, and whether you know of other songs that secretly share the same DNA.

I did a 5-day water fast with daily blood glucose and ketones measurements

I have been on Intermittent Fasting (IF) for over a year and I gradually increased my IF from 16/8 to 18/6, 20/4 and sometimes reaching 24 or 25 hours without food. There are so many resources on the web on the benefits of IF such as reversing insulin resistance, weight loss (because one tends to eat lesser with IF and creates a sustainable calorie deficit) and many more.

However, to get some of the better benefits such as fat burn (ketosis) and autophagy, a fast that is beyond 24 hours is required. This is because you may already spend 24-48 hours depleting your glycogen store in your liver and muscle before you can enter ketosis. This is the time that autophagy can also begin. While on a keto diet or IF, one tends to drink black tea / coffee but that is thought to interrupt the autophagy process by stimulating insulin response. As such, I planned to be extremely strict on my 5-day water fast – nothing except plain water.

I started on Sunday, 28 November 2021 at 6:30pm – that is the time I swallowed my last bite of dinner. I at like there was no tomorrow. As a result, I weighed in at 90.45KG that night. Although I started on Sunday 6:30pm and is to break my fast at the same time on the following Friday, let’s take Monday as Day 1 for simplicity.

I bought a tube of ketone urine test strips in advance but I gave it some thought and felt that I should invest in a more precise data collection since I’ll be committing so much to this 5-day fast. It would be a waste if I had to fall back on test strip indicators that are subjective. I will then use Glucose-Ketones-Index (GKI) to see how am I doing in terms of ketosis.

What is GKI (Glucose Ketones Index)

Day 1

I went out to grab blood glucose and ketones strips for my Abbott Freestyle Optium Neo Blood Glucose & Ketones Monitoring System

  • Mood: Totally fine – this is within my usual IF practice anyway
  • Energy level: Great
  • Mental clarity: good
  • Blood Glucose: 4.8 mmol/L
  • Blood Ketones: 0.3 mmol/L
  • GKI: 16 (Not in ketosis)
  • Weight: 88.75 kg
  • Remarks: My body has yet to fully use up the glycogen store due to my high carb meal the day before. I expect this to be depleted within the next 12-24 hours.

Day 2

  • Mood: A little grumpy
  • Energy level: A little lesser than normal
  • Mental clarity: good
  • Blood Glucose: 3.6 mmol/L
  • Blood Ketones: 2.1 mmol/L
  • GKI: 1.7 (Therapeutic ketosis)
  • Weight: 88.25 kg
  • Remarks: I jumped straight into ketosis. The hunger was okay but my mind is

Day 3

  • Mood: neutral
  • Energy level: it’s alright
  • Mental clarity: good
  • Blood Glucose: 3.2 mmol/L
  • Blood Ketones: 3.6 mmol/L
  • GKI: 0.9  (Highest therapeutic ketosis)
  • Weight: 87.2 kg
  • Remarks: Technically hypoglycaemic if based purely on blood glucose level. However, I am burning fats and ketones so this level of glucose is still safe. The body is using protein to produce the little bit of glucose needed by certain parts of the body that cannot burn fat/ketones.

Day 4

  • Mood: grumpy
  • Energy level: lower than usual
  • Mental clarity: great
  • Blood Glucose: 3.3 mmol/L
  • Blood Ketones: 4.7 mmol/L
  • GKI: 0.7  (Highest therapeutic ketosis)
  • Weight: 86.75 kg
  • Remarks: I can’t take my mind of food. Every time I open FB/IG, someone is posting about food they bought / eating or how-to style videos about preparing food. I went into Grab app and attempted to schedule some deliveries for the next day ….

Day 5

  • Mood: surreal
  • Energy level: lower than usual
  • Mental clarity: great
  • Blood Glucose: 3.1 mmol/L
  • Blood Ketones: 6.2 mmol/L
  • GKI: 0.5  (Highest therapeutic ketosis)
  • Weight: 85.4 kg
  • Remarks: I walked for about 2.4km to run errands (Grab groceries and such for my breaking of fast). Because of that exertion, I hit an all time high of 6.2 mmol/L of ketones and 3.1 mmol/L of glucose.

Data Collected

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May be an image of text that says "Howard's weight, body fat and muscle mass Weight (KG) 100 90.45 88.85 Body Fat (KG) 88.75 80 Muscle Mass (KG) 88.25 87.5 87.2 60 86.75 58.20 86.05 85.4 58. FI 57.90 40 28:76 57.90 PM 57.70 58.20 27.45 26.89 20 28/11 pm 26.92 26.43 26.16 29/11 pm 25.94 1/12 am 24.70 24.77 2/12 am 3/12pm pm"

My final blood glucose and ketones blood test on Day 5

Conclusion

As you can see, despite not eating for 5 days, my blood glucose level did not drop below 3 (which would have been dangerous). This is no coincidence as the body just produces enough glucose to keep some parts of my body functioning while the bulk of my body ran on fats and ketones. Will I do it again? Yes – twice a year. There is no need to go on a 5-day fast that often. However, I am contemplating going on a weekly 48-hour fast on top of my IF.

A word of warning: if you are diabetic, please consult a doctor first because instead of ketosis, you can slip into ketoacidosis which is potentially life threatening!